Is it Rare for a Woman to Publish a Book…. About Her Sex Life?
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QUEEN OF DOMINATION, MY SECRET LIFE is a mind-bender. Hell yes, I’m going to lay it on the line, it’s a mind-fuck beyond the scope of reasoning to a degree. That’s what you will think some times, ’cause it’s deep… extra deep. Maybe unfathomable in parts. I’ll take you from prim and proper ballet shoes and violin lessons to hard-core leather boots, whips and chains and everything in between!
This book is jam packed full of life, karma and choices. Some were beyond my control. Most were not. I’m talking about the real deal.
Something fascinating was brought to my attention two weeks ago when my dearest colleague took me by surprise by asking a question I wasn’t prepared for.
“Carla, what makes your book unique?” It sounded like an easy question.
“Well, um, because I wrote it.” I answered not knowing what he expected.
“Carla, stop and think about it, what makes your book unique?” I hesitated to respond this time, thinking I didn’t have the answer he was looking for.
“Um… ahhh, not quite sure now, now that you asked.” I said reluctantly. Now, I knew I wasn’t able to answer his question with the answer he was looking for. This was not an easy question after all. He explained with a serious tone, which I knew was not a joking matter.
“You wrote about your sex life! That’s very rare, Carla. Didn’t you know that? It’s rare for a woman to write about her personal sex life. That’s what makes your book unique! And you know what’s going to happen don’t you?” Once again, I was taken back, though not at all shocked by the answer.
“They’re going to call you a whore, prostitute and everything like that. Are you prepared for that?” I assured my doctor friend that while writing QUEEN OF DOMINATION, MY SECRET LIFE, I had come to grips with the reality that narrow-minded or resentful people would react exactly like that, and I expect it. It’s typical. People can’t help but always show their true colors. I’m not ashamed of the life I’ve lived or what I did. I admit to a few regrets that I carry pain for. But in reality, I believe my escapades, encounters, research, shenanigans and professions gave me a huge and vast bird’s eye view of sex and life which better prepared me for the career path I chose later in life. To be a clinical sexologist. How many clinicians can claim the same history of first hand life experience to supplement their scholastic education?
On the way home from our dinner engagement, the doctor’s words kept reverberating in my mind. Rare…., sex life…., very rare……, I wrote about my sex life. Had I done something so unusual again? Oh, God. Was this road ahead of me going to be another theatrical chapter in my already taboo life? My life was never able to avoid a constant flow of theatrical productions and emotional hurdles.
But my riveting, tell-all memoir, my autobiography, is about much more than just gritty, graphic sex. I wrote… I confessed many things; from what I thought and how I felt to what I did. What that boils down to is this. If you’re looking for the chance to get the “dirt” on me. Here is your golden opportunity. I know a few people will get their kicks and jollies from reading all about my dirty laundry. Some will get a thrill reading about the explicit sex scenes of my sexual experiences, or titillated and high from the heavy and bizarre BDSM play, but others will grasp tightly onto the psychological significance that is poignant throughout the dialog and display of human behavior. No excuses, only opinions and explanations. I will insert a famous quote here:
“Behavior is the mirror where everybody shows their true image.” Goethe
All in all, I learned important life lessons from all of it. I wouldn’t have had anything to write about if I hadn’t lived through all those experiences. You would not be reading this blog if I hadn’t lived on the edge of society as a non-conformist who insisted on challenging the system. I would not have had a reason to write QUEEN OF DOMINATION, MY SECRET LIFE, if I hadn’t gone where most people fear to tread. So, I guess it is rare that a woman would purposely divulge her most private and dark moments.
Truthfully, I have always had an extreme driving force, I’m talking about that “spirit” which makes me get back up, after I’ve been knocked down to my knees. A driven woman, some people would say, because I am driven to persevere against all odds, and I’m going to show you how and why in QUEEN OF DOMINATION, MY SECRET LIFE. Give me the opportunity, if you will dare to go on this journey with me, I will show you what and how I learned, and how I survived along the way… the hard way, at the school of hard knocks. Hop a ride on the train with me that’s carrying a cargo of courage, guts, determination and perseverance, because that’s where it’s going. That’s where I’m going to take you. Get ready for a loud, bumpy ride into my reality.
QUEEN OF DOMINATION, MY SECRET LIFE will break the sound barriers this summer!
Author: Grande Mistress Carla AKA Dr. Charlayne Grenci