Author: Dr. Charlayne Grenci PhD

PEDOPHILIA VS SEXUAL ORIENTATION

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Pedophilia Is NOT a Sexual Orientation I came across a Facebook post on September 5, 2020 that I knew would become controversial, and as a Clinical Sexologist, I must respond to the public with my contrary report. The post’s header was: ‘Scholars Say Pedophilia Is Now A Sexual Orientation That Should Be Accepted by Members of Society’. Pedophilia is a paraphilia and paraphilia used to be called a sexual deviation or perversion, so I will strongly refute this theory immediately! I’m wondering who was desperate enough for recognition in this field that they were compelled to defy all established, clinical research with such a ridiculous claim. The clinical fact is: Pedophilia is listed as one of the paraphilic disorders. There are other paraphilic disorders in DSM-5, such as necrophilia, zoophilia and bestiality. If acted upon, these are criminal acts. However, the etiology of paraphilias is unknown. A paraphilia is thought of as ‘a learned behavior’. This behavior occurs primarily in males between 6-12 years old, yet some clinicians believe it occurs more in the 5-7 year range. A pedophile is defined as having an interest in children under 13 years of age. Paraphilias are a lifelong condition. So let’s correct… Continue reading

Legendary Relationship Expert & Entertaining Guest Speaker

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  Many people don’t know that there is such a profession as a Sexuality Educator or Clinical Sexologist which is why people are fascinated, curious and sometimes overwhelmed to meet Me. It is likewise fascinating to Me to see their reactions and receive their questions. Most everyone has questions about sex and/or sex is on their mind frequently. I enjoy sharing My knowledge with folks who want to learn. I do not, when it appears they do not want to hear the blatant truth, which I feel is my responsibility to enlighten them with. Some people don’t want to believe the truth, turn a blind eye and others become shocked but handle it. Still others embrace what they learn from Me and become empowered and/or find answers for their issues and dilemma. I am a Sexuality Educator who entertains people with education. I have found over the last 35 years that My provocative, flamboyant presentation style has worked well for Me. I am thoroughly grateful I have been able to influence, guide and help thousands of people. I am devoted to My profession for those reasons. I just recently realized, I may be one of the highest paid ‘Relationship Experts’,… Continue reading

MEDICINE CABINETS – HOLD ‘DIRTY LITTLE SECRETS’

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. Medicine Cabinets Are ‘Relationship Destroyers’!!! It’s a well-known fact that people like to snoop through bathroom medicine cabinets.  In fact, it is said that more than 50% of people who visit your home will really take a peek inside your medicine cabinet.  Many folks have advised that it’s a wise move to take a peek into someone’s medicine cabinet before you decide to get serious. The medicine cabinet tells volumes about a person who may not be sharing that important information with you! You’ll see if you know their legal name, the kind of medications with the dates will suggest what health issues, both mental and physical are being medicated. This is such a phenomenon, that websites show slides and videos to give you voyeuristic peeks into a plethora of medicine cabinets. Everything from sex lube, poppers, prophylactics (if size matters to you – lol) denture cream and hemorrhoid suppositories to Prozac, Seconal, Oxycodone, and Viagra!  Hell, you might get lucky to discover your prospective date or mate may have forgotten their stash of recreational drugs is in the bathroom, or maybe a sex toy! You might get a hint about their sexual practices, but of course, communication is… Continue reading

Coming Soon: SECRET FANTASY THEATRE

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I’LL ALWAYS BE AMERICA’S 1st GRANDE MISTRESS – SOME THINGS NEVER CHANGE… IN SPITE OF BEING ‘DR. GRENCI’, CLINICAL SEXOLOGIST, AUTHOR & GUEST SPEAKER My Legendary History Will Continue To Thrive!!! In 2008, when I graduated from Maimonides University with a Ph.D., I thought my credentials would be compromised if I remained a Pro Domme and founder/owner of my Dungeon Club in Pompano Beach, Florida.  Only a few months after my graduation, I regrettably and sadly sold Command Performance, Inc. to a Mistress who worked as my manager, whom I had trained to run the business.  At that time, when I felt my life had taken another huge turn, I didn’t realize that forsaking my business would not have jeopardized my new career and goals as an author, guest speaker, and relationship coach. I created, launched and ran Command Performance for over 16 years, through a mine field of trials and tribulations including: numerous bomb threats on my club and death threats to me plus a police raid all from an angry, ruthless competitor; trouble with the city, county, code enforcement or landlords; numerous issues with hired help and.. you name it, it wasn’t a picnic to keep my doors… Continue reading

Relationship Destroyers – Part Eight

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Relationship Destroyers – About Intimate and/or Sexual Relationships: PART 8 – DEPENDENCY – UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS      Expectations, unrealistic expectations are a major relationship destroyer.  No matter how you look at it, no matter which half of the relationship you stand for, expectations are a killer. This section could be a separate book in and of itself because it’s complex. complicated and sensitive material yet at the same time, if you look at the dynamics of ‘expectations’ through clear, unbiased, objective eyes, it’s not difficult to understand. I will explain it as I see it. This blog will only deal with one aspect of it, and it’s getting clinical, but we’re all adults here, so you can handle this. If the truth were told in equitable terms, we all have certain expectations of the person we share a relationship with. We expect this, we expect that – we wait for this, we imagine that and all of these expectations serve to fulfill our needs and desires or to compensate for what we feel we lack and deserve. Some  fair, reasonable and appropriate depending on the situations at hand. Effectively or should I say Some expectations are normal, fair, reasonable and appropriate… Continue reading

Relationship Destroyers – Part Seven

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Relationship Destroyers – About Intimate and/or Sexual Relationships: PART 7 – The DAY the ONION CRIED: 16 DYNAMICS of SUFFERING   We think about sex, infidelity, money, and lots of other things when we talk about relationship destroyers.  We also put the blame on mental cruelty and other abusive relationships.  Have we ever gone deep down into the mire of mixed emotions? This Blog will be to the point about the major human condition that is likely to rule our personal world and predispose us for an imbalance in life.  I’m referring to suffering. Some of you might be thinking “enough said”, Dr. Grenci, ’cause I know all about suffering.  And I’ll agree with you, that you do.  We all do.  If you haven’t, I’m going to think you do not belong to our species, so where are you from? I’m prepared to open a huge can of emotional worms here today. This discussion is not about being negative or trying to upset anyone.  This discussion is purely for the purpose of facing reality…. yes, the mute point underneath and on top of all this is – reality.  I don’t expect everyone to agree with me, or even read this… Continue reading

Behind Closed Doors: Detective Fly on the Wall

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“You humans are often wishing to be a fly on the wall. You use in your conversations the phrase “I’d love to be a fly on the wall” to suggest you would like to be an invisible voyeur to observe the behavior of other humans.  I’m a common house fly, an undercover detective and the esteemed narrator of

Behind Closed Doors, Detective Fly on The Wall.”

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An example:
“I mentally prepared myself for entering this historic U.S. residence which is, by all means, a political hell hole and private war zone where corruption, hypocrisy, and danger breeds.”

Get the fictional story BEHIND CLOSED DOORS on all Amazon sites around the world, such as Amazon for the US, Australia, NZ, South Africa or on Amazon.de, Amazon.ca, Amazon.co.uk, Amazon.fr or at Barnes & Noble, Kobo, Gardners, Scribd, Story- Tel, OverDrive, Bookmate, just to name a few of the many retailers and distributors that carry my books.
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Take a peek behind the masks of hypocrisy and the walls of deception that lurk and thrive in the mainstream; the secret, desperate lives of sinners, perverts, and criminals that remain usually well hidden in posh mansions from the wrath and condemnation of our society.
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More books by Dr. Charlayne Grenci:

Queen of Domination: My Secret Life
Marcel Proust EXPOSED
SECRET CINEMAS
Last Curtain for a Stripper
A Politician EXPOSED

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Last Curtain for a Stripper

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.   An elegant former Burlesque Dancer and Stripper sees no other solution than to  … and a little detective fly tells us all. Experience the shocking, uncensored stories about the private lives and the double lives of people we think we know.  Take a peek behind the masks of hypocrisy and the walls of deception which lurk and thrive in the mainstream. The secrets and desperate lives of sinners, perverts, politicians, and criminals remain well hidden from the wrath and condemnation of our society. . The LAST CURTAIN FOR A STRIPPER is a short story, actually two stories, and is a prequel for BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. Follow me on Social Media: Website Author Page Amazon Page Facebook LinkedIn GooglePlus Twitter: @CharlayneGrenci . Readers can also order signed print books directly at my website: Queen of Domination: My Secret Life Marcel Proust EXPOSED SECRET CINEMAS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS <><><><><>   Continue reading

Decadence, Sex & Crime in Wash., DC

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  My prequel for BEHIND CLOSED DOORS: Detective Fly on the Wall . Decadence, Sex, and Crime BEHIND CLOSED DOORS Experience the shocking, uncensored stories about the private lives and the double lives of people we think we know.  Take a peek behind the masks of hypocrisy and the walls of deception which lurk and thrive in the mainstream.   The secrets and desperate lives of sinners, perverts, criminals, and even politicians remain well hidden from the wrath and condemnation of our society.  A POLITICIAN EXPOSED is a short but telling fictional story, a prequel of the upcoming book BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. Available in North America and in Europe at Amazon, Kobo, Barnes&Noble, Tolino, and Scribd – get your copy for only $0.99.  The ebook’s ISBN: 978-1-988664-09-5 . . Follow me on Social Media: Website Amazon Page Facebook LinkedIn GooglePlus Twitter: @CharlayneGrenci Readers can also order signed print books directly at my website: Queen of Domination: My Secret Life Marcel Proust EXPOSED SECRET CINEMAS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS <><><><><> Continue reading

Relationship Destroyers – Part Six

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. . About Intimate and/or Sexual Relationships – Part 6 When Two Become One… Joined at the Hip Haven’t I heard that somewhere before?  RED FLAG! Old school, maybe, but we’ve definitely become familiar with the saying, ‘when two become one’.  Another familiar saying is: ‘joined at the hip’.  You might think, cute, sweet, how wonderful that sounds, but the reality is… that philosophy is… a relationship destroyer.  Maybe not today, maybe not when you first think it or say it, but on down the road, being up someone’s ass after a certain amount of times can get extremely uncomfortable, or… painful.  Yikes! However, there is a lot of truth in the saying: ‘too close for comfort’ and ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’.  Have you ever wondered where those saying came from?  I realize when your love is new, or your chemistry is on fire, that’s how you may feel, thinking: OMG, I want to be with him (or her) every minute of the day and night.  I applaud your feelings and celebrate your reasoning… for now.  But for most couples, that need and desire will eventually wane down to another level.  I say eventually, giving most couples the… Continue reading